There’s defending your spouse online and then there’s this. Val Chmerkovskiy, beloved Dancing With the Stars pro, posted something in defense of his wife that referenced the Will Smith Oscars slap — and the resulting fallout has him issuing a full public apology.
Buckle up.
What Happened on DWTS
It started during a tense moment on the Dancing With the Stars dance floor. Val’s wife had a heated exchange with judge Carrie Ann Inaba over a samba performance critique. These things happen on reality TV — judges push, contestants push back, emotions run high. Normal Tuesday night stuff.
What is not normal Tuesday night stuff is what happened next.
Val Fires Off a Post
Val, apparently watching from home with his feelings fully in his hands, took to social media to defend his wife from what he called a “vicious critique.” So far, so husband. The problem? The post referenced the Will Smith Oscars slap — an incident in which a man physically assaulted another person on live television — as some kind of defense mechanism.
Reader, it did not play well.
The Apology
To his credit, Val didn’t let it linger. He came back with a public apology that was direct and took full responsibility:
I am truly sorry to Carrie Ann, and everyone who I hurt with my careless post.
— Val Chmerkovskiy (@iamValC)
Short, sincere, no excuses. Points for that, genuinely.
The Larger Lesson
The Will Smith slap has now become a cultural reference point that people keep trying to invoke as a punchline or a point — and it keeps going wrong. It was a man hitting another man on live TV. It’s not a metaphor. It’s not a meme template. It was just… bad.
Val knows his audience — DWTS fans are passionate, Carrie Ann Inaba has been on this show for decades, and nobody was going to let a slap reference slide in that context.
Where Things Stand
DWTS fans are forgiving but they have long memories. Val is one of the most popular pros in the show’s history, and the apology was swift enough that this probably won’t follow him too far. Carrie Ann has yet to publicly respond, which is either grace or the kind of silence that speaks volumes.
We’re going with volumes.



